I am a full spectrum doula serving Greater Vancouver and a topic I always cover with my clients in our prenatal sessions is when to call in your medical care team or go to the hospital. The answer will depend based on if you are having a home birth, a hospital birth, and your health status (i.e. if you are getting an induction for medical reasons, if you have a history of precipitous labours etc.) It will also depend on if this is your first baby or not.
Length of Labour Depending on Situation
Multips (people who have had a baby before) typically go faster, and first time birthers (primips) tend to take longer to have their baby. If you have a history of precipitous (very quick) births, we will also factor this in. If you live far from the hospital (and are having a hospital birth), we will also factor this in.
If you are getting an induction, they may admit you right away before labour starts (for a pitocin induction). For other types of induction, they will probably send you home and you will come in when you are in active labour like normal (unless they give you other instructions).
Other Circumstances
Releasing of Waters
If you are full term and your waters have released (labour may or may not have started yet), your care team may advise you come in to the hospital for an induction or to monitor you for signs of infection. If you have midwives and are planning a home birth, it’ll depend on your team’s level of comfort with waiting for labour to start naturally or wanting to manage risk more. This is a larger topic that I will go over another time, but the short summary of my thoughts on this is that there are pros and cons to waiting vs speeding up labour, and the studies are non-conclusive for when infection risk rises (and the recommendations between individual care providers vary widely too). Infection risk also rises with repeated vaginal exams, which happen more often once the medical care team is involved. So if you do your research and feel comfortable with giving it time for labour to start naturally (1-3 days or even more), that’s your choice to make and to advocate for!
Concerning Symptoms
If you have heavy bleeding or foul smelling amniotic fluid, you will be advised to go into the hospital. Heavy bright red flowing bleeding is concerning and different than “bloody show” (which is a normal sign of labour starting soon and is mucous tinged with a small amount of blood). If you have meconium in the water, you may be recommended additional monitoring in case baby is stressed, but this could totally be harmless too and just because the baby is full term. There is also a small risk of meconium aspiration and your medical team will be ready to assist baby if they have trouble breathing.
If you have any other medical concerns such as headache or decreased fetal movement, you should be assessed as soon as possible by a medical care provider.

When to Call Your Midwives
In British Columbia, many people planning a home or hospital birth choose to stay at home during early labour (when contractions are still mild, irregular, and manageable) because this phase can last quite a while, and remaining in a calm home environment can support natural labour progression in uncomplicated situations. During this time, a doula can be especially helpful by providing continuous emotional support, comfort measures, reassurance, and coping strategies for both you and your birth partner. Midwives focus more on clinical assessment, safety monitoring, and documentation as labour progresses. Midwives still offer emotional reassurance, but their attention is often shared across medical responsibilities, so a doula can fill that continuous support role.
For a home birth, your midwife will usually come once labour is clearly established, meaning contractions are strong, regular, and requiring full focus, or when you feel you need hands-on support. For a planned hospital birth with midwives, the timing to go in is often similar. This is generally when contractions are consistently strong, about 4–5 minutes apart, lasting around a minute, and have been like that for a sustained period, or sooner if your midwife has given specific instructions based on your pregnancy. You may also be advised to go in right away if your water breaks and the fluid is not clear, if there is reduced fetal movement, bleeding, or any concerning symptoms, or if you feel unable to cope at home. A midwife can also provide pain relief options such as sterile water injections for back labour if appropriate.
If there are no medical concerns, delaying when you go into the hospital or call the midwives can help you to reduce the likelihood of unnecessary interventions. If you are in early labour and wanting to call the midwives or go into the hospital, it can help bring clarity if you pause and ask yourself what you are hoping to get from them. Sometimes what you really want is reassurance or the feeling that things are “moving forward,” which often means you may be able to stay home a bit longer (or delay calling the midwives) if you are coping well.
Even if you are choosing to wait longer in early labour to support a lower-intervention birth, you should always call your midwife right away if something feels wrong or uncertain. You can also call at any time to ask questions, get reassurance, or discuss comfort options like sterile water injections. The goal is not to delay care, but to use your support team well. This can include means staying home longer when everything is normal, while knowing exactly when to call or go in so you feel safe and supported throughout labour.

When to Go to the Hospital
Arriving at the hospital too early can sometimes mean being asked to return home or spend time walking around the hospital until labour is more established. For some, it can still be worthwhile to go in earlier for pain relief (the morphine injection) and then return home to continue labouring. (You can explore this more in my blog post on pain management options in labour.)
A common guideline is the 4-1-1 or 5-1-1 pattern which means you have contractions every 4–5 minutes, lasting 1 minute, for at least 1 hour. This will depend on your care provider’s recommendation, assuming everything is otherwise healthy and progressing normally. You can plan to call your midwives or head to the hospital when you’re roughly at this point, or when you notice yourself turning inward and labour is clearly intensifying and picking up, even if you haven’t been timing closely.
If you are being induced, the approach will differ. You might be admitted right away for closer monitoring (such as with a Pitocin induction), or you may be sent home to wait for labour to establish (as with prostaglandin based inductions or a Foley catheter) and told to return once things are underway.
In general, staying home as long as possible is associated with a lower likelihood of unnecessary interventions and can allow labour to unfold more comfortably in a familiar environment.
Why Timing Contractions Is Not Necessary
Timing contractions is often presented as essential, but many people naturally develop a clear sense of their labour pattern without closely tracking every minute. The intensity of contractions and how inward the birthing person becomes can offer more meaningful insight into the stage of labour than exact timing alone. Most people are still able to sense the general rhythm—how long contractions last, how close together they are, and how long the pattern has been consistent—without needing to measure each one precisely.
Focusing too much on a timer can pull attention outward, shifting the experience from one of presence and embodiment to one of monitoring and progress. That energy is often better spent supporting the birthing person—offering physical comfort, creating a calm environment, or tending to practical needs like preparing food or the space. Staying attuned to the body, rather than the clock, can help labour unfold more intuitively and keep the focus on the lived experience rather than external markers of “how far along” things are.

When to Get an Epidural
If you opt to get an epidural, there is no shame in that – however, you should be aware that there are some limitations on when it will be available to you. Also, if you are able to delay getting an epidural for longer, you have a higher chance of having a successful vaginal birth. This is because epidurals are known for slowing down labour if you get them too soon. If you are planning to use an epidural, I would try to layer up other coping tools so that you are able to cope at home for longer and incase the epidural doesn’t work or if there is a delay for the anesthesiologist to get to you.
Chances are high that you will not be admitted for an early epidural anyways, depending on the capacity of the hospital at the moment. You may be told to come back when you are in more active labour. So it is best to have a variety of coping tools in your tool kit so you feel prepares. Read more about medical and non-medical pain management options here!
When to Call Your Doula
You can call your doula anytime! If you are my client, please call or text me to update me if you are starting to feel things shift or signs of labour starting so I can be up to date and start organizing my life to head over soon!
Early labour can be start and stop for several days, so I may be in and out for the first bit but I will be on stand by to join when you need me. Part of my support involves helping you decide when is s good time to call your midwives or go to the hospital. I will join you and stay with when you are in established labour (contractions continue) until 1-2 hours after your baby is born.
Please do not hesitate to call or text if you are not sure if you are in labour or not! We can talk it through. You can also reach out at any time during pregnancy to update me on any changes and after your appointments. Each doula works differently, but generally this is what you can expect with doulas (and myself if we are working together).

Ready for More Support?
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